Manners and customs. Troyanovitch,-Sima Society-Serbs-Europe General No-date In 'Servia by the Servians', edited by Alfred Stead. pp. 169-198. London: William Heinemann. 185 1909 the most popular are St. Nicholas, Michel the Archangel, St. John, etc. A couple of days before the Slava a priest comes to bless a vessel of water, which has been prepared for the purpose. After he has done so, he asperses with a bunch of Basilienkraut the Ikon of the saint who is the Slava's patron, and also the inmates of the house. On the eve of the feast the lamp hanging before the Ikon is lit, and must burn incessantly during the whole of the next day. A dish of boiled wheat (Koljivo) and a particular kind of cake (Slavski kolac) are prepared for the Slava. On that day they are incensed and blessed by the priest, who then pours wine over them, and, assisted by the master of the house or his son, cuts the cake. For the Feast of St. Elias and Michel the Archangel, Koljivo is not prepared, since it is an offering for the dead, and these saints are believed to be still living. A wax candle which has been lit by the priest burns till night, when it is extinguished by pouring wine over it; it must never be blown out. Of the visitors who come to the Slava, all the men embrace the master, and the women the mistress of the house. On entering, instead of the usual greeting, they say, 'Happy Slava!' The host must be on his feet all day, welcoming and entertaining his guests. A maiden serves them with Koljivo, of which everyone is obliged to take a spoonful, and then -- in the towns -- with jam, cakes, and whisky or wine, according as it is the forenoon or afternoon. Since the saint whose feast is celebrated is the patron of the house, his intercession with God is always solicited at prayers. After a man's death it is the same Slava which is kept by his sons, and they transmit it to their male offspring, and so on. In some regions families who keep the same Slava consider that therefore they are related, and do not intermarry. This may be justified, for often the same Slava is celebrated by a whole tribe, its members being all descended from the same stock. In South-Eastern Servian lands a priest must come into the house on the Slava day to conduct a memorial service for the dead, and he must light the candle which has been stuck into the Kolac. The Kolac (which is offered as a sacrifice for the departed), the commemoration of the dead, etc., all prove the reverence of the Servians for their deceased ancestors. Having ascertained that the Slava is held in token of respect toward the deceased -- especially the male ancestors, who kept the same feast -- we may also assert that the sacrifice (Koljivo) and the lighted wax candle and lamp likewise refer to the ancestors. A woman is almost a stranger in a family, for she comes from her father's Slava to that of her husband's ; hence she is not entitled to cut the cake or light or extinguish the wax candle, but must be content to take part in the ordinary Regulation-Of-Marriage 562; 574; 582; 602; 668; 765; 775; 793; 796 DOC:2126